In His Own Words
About Him
Head firmly beneath the clouds - although subject to bouts of craziness like anyone. Not religious or overly judgmental and generally a laid-back kinda guy. Somewhat shy until I warm up to people but can usually get on with most, except arrogant up-their-own-arse types. I am not at all 'cool' (whatever that means), I'm not into partying, snorting/popping drugs and other (apparent?) staples of the gay community. Oh, woe is me. I like speaking to people - engaging, discovering, appreciating. I can't do that in a club. I'm not an intellectual snob, but I really get irritated by people who refuse to engage their brain and just toe the party line, or who are only concerned with who's screwing who, what so and so is driving, where such and such is living...gaaaaah!!!
I'm tired of being single and would love to meet someone special who understands concepts like fidelity and honesty with a view to something lasting. Being single means I can walk around in my jocks/nekkid etc ;-) but I'd happily surrender that great benefit for the right guy ;)
About His Ideal Match
A man who is single, intelligent and looks after his health and body. A man who can talk about many things, who is friendly and compassionate. A man who can give love and is comfortable receiving it. A man who... ah crap,not likely to find that ;) Bottom line: A decent guy that I can feel comfortable with and attracted to. (and as I've learned, finding smart *and* sexy is not easy)
What His Friends Say
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Blaauwberg (Bloubergstrand), Cape Town, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
53 | |
Star Sign: |
Gemini | |
Height: |
179cm (5' 10.5") | |
Body Type: |
Slim | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair Colour: |
Dark Brown | |
Eye Colour: |
Grey | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans | |
Religion: |
Agnostic | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Friends; Open to possibilities; Long-term | |
Have Children: |
No | |
Want Children: |
Maybe | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
PhD / Post Doctoral | |
Occupation: |
Teacher / Professor | |
Income: |
Comfortable |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in Western Cape, South Africa | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age Range: |
25 - 45 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
170cm (5' 6.9") - 200cm (6' 6.7") | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic | ||
Looks: |
Beauty contest winner; Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Ethnicity: |
Asian; Coloured; Indian; Latino/Hispanic; White/Caucasian; Other; Mixed | ||
Home Language: |
Afrikaans; English | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Atheist; Spiritual, but not religious; Other | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
No; Yes, not living with me; Yes, living with me sometimes | ||
Want Children: |
Any | ||
Daily Diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
Current University / College Student; Some University / College; Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy; Fat cat |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Hair Style: |
Short |
Facial Hair: |
I have a goatee |
HIV Status: |
Negative |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Dry |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party Behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality Traits: |
Cautious; Funny; Intelligent; Quiet; Realistic; Sarcastic; Shy; Stable |
Valued Qualities: |
Celibacy; Compassion; Faithfulness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humour; Kindness; Moderation; Patience; Self-control; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite Clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Date Activities: |
A movie; Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for coffee |
Music Preferences: |
Blues; Classical; Instrumental; Rock; World |
Books: |
Fantasy; Fiction; History; Horror; Non-fiction; Sci-Fi; Science / Technology |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Educational; Nature / Wildlife; News; Sci-Fi |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Art Films; Comedy; Horror; Independent; Sci-Fi |
Interests: |
Board games; Computer & video games; Computer programming; Reading; Surfing the Internet; Writing books |
Sport Involvement: |
Bored to death |
Cooking: |
I have to cook |
Food: |
Chinese; French; German; Greek; Indian; Italian; Thai |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Pace of Life: |
Organised |
Time at Work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Socialising with friends |
Time Online: |
I check in once a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got brothers |
Family Closeness: |
We're dysfunctional |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Pets (Like): |
Cat(s); Dog(s) |
Religious Attendance: |
I'm non-practicing |
Retirement Plans: |
Exploring the 7 Wonders of the World |
Politics: |
Liberal |
Honesty: |
Extremely |
