In His Own Words
About Him
Homely, cautious, relatively adventurous, not neat, not interested in the way I look to others and what I wear. My home is my safe space. I'm not family orientated. I do a lot of introspection and personal growth to be the better me. I ruminate a lot. Don't expect me to trust you, that's unrealistic. Trust takes time .... lots of time.
About His Ideal Match
I don't really have an ideal match. That's unrealistic. Based on the guys I've known, the idea of an ideal match is superfluous.
What His Friends Say
AJFJ hasn't asked any friends to write a recommendation yet.
About Him
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Johannesburg (Malvern), Gauteng, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
58 | |
Star Sign: |
Leo | |
Height: |
168cm (5' 6.1") | |
Body Type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair Colour: |
Greying | |
Eye Colour: |
Blue-Green | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans | |
Religion: |
Other | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Friends; Open to possibilities; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
No | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker | |
Education: |
Technical Diploma | |
Occupation: |
Retired | |
Income: |
Ask me later |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in Gauteng, South Africa | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age Range: |
37 - 67 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
Any | ||
Body Type: |
Average | ||
Looks: |
Any | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home Language: |
Any | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
No | ||
Daily Diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Hair Style: |
Short; Out of control; It has its moods |
Eyesight: |
I sometimes wear glasses |
Body Hair: |
Light |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Intelligence: |
Average |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party Behaviour: |
A wallflower |
Personality Traits: |
Cautious; Easy going; Funny; Mild; Moody; Naive; Quiet; Shy; Silly |
Valued Qualities: |
Compassion; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Moderation; Patience; Self-control; Tolerance |
Favourite Clothing: |
My pyjamas |
Date Activities: |
A music concert; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee |
Music Preferences: |
Broadway / Theatrical; Classical; Country & Western; Instrumental; Opera; Pop / Top 40; R&B / Soul |
Reading: |
It's just OK |
Books: |
Self-help |
TV Habits: |
I watch a few favourite shows each week |
TV Shows: |
Cartoons; Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Educational; Motoring; Sci-Fi; Variety shows |
Movie Frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie Preferences: |
Comedy; Documentary; Mystery; Sci-Fi |
Sport Involvement: |
Not involved at all |
Cooking: |
I can't or won't cook |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
Gluten-free; Lactose-free |
Pace of Life: |
Disorganised |
Time at Work: |
I don't work |
Time Online: |
I'm on several hours a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got brothers |
Family Closeness: |
We're dysfunctional |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm unlikely to move |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Cat(s) |
Dream Home: |
Eco home in the bush |
Religious Attendance: |
Never |
Retirement Plans: |
Sailing the seven seas |
Politics: |
I have no interest in politics |
Feelings about using QueerBuzz Men: |
Nervous; Hopeful |
Honesty: |
Very |