In His Own Words
About Him
I'm from Bloemfontein 41yr bottom male. I'm HIV positive. I'm healthy on ARV. Trying to grow and find myself again. Im open minded honest kind and loyal. Honesty respect is very important to me. I'm a passive-bottom lover looking for and active-top partner. I do struggle at times to express what I'm feeling and I'm also a bit akward socially. But that's who I am and I must embrace....it . Lacked acceptance of whom I am for a long time. Felt hurt by many people and felt rejected alot and used drugs and alcohol for acceptance, Ive learnt alot about EQ. I didn't understand what I was feeling. I probably been doing this since a child and always felt wierd and reacted wrongly. But now I understand better and working on it. It's was all in yr head a mental game that I lost...and bad choices... I'm not a fan of social media but embracing it slowly. I'm on Grinder.
About His Ideal Match
Looking for someone who want to meet and see if we are compatible. No one is perfect. There's no right and wrong just different people with different needs who need to match with acceptance of each other. So things can be a deal breakers and each to their own. I'm an introvert with extroverted thinking and I'm a passive lover so my ideal match must want that at least. He must be honest loyal open minded is all I can ask and if theres mistakes, we must talk. I'm not that arrogant to ask for too much but I guess even the same might be alot for different people as no one is perfect and we are products of our past and life but important to be mindful of those weaknesses mindful of who we are and why we are. Most people are similar in many ways. Just different in how we react to things. And so we change as life experience's take over and the wheels of time turn. Can't really control everything but manage our impecfections with hard work though Que..Sera. .Sera....so acceptance and peace in your heart is what I wish for......
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Bloemfontein, Free State, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
42 | |
Star Sign: |
Pisces | |
Height: |
176cm (5' 9.3") | |
Body Type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair Colour: |
Black | |
Eye Colour: |
Brown | |
Ethnicity: |
Other | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans; Zulu | |
Religion: |
Other | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
No | |
Want Children: |
Maybe | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Trying to Quit | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Postgraduate degree | |
Occupation: |
Other | |
Income: |
Comfortable |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age Range: |
18 - 51 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
170cm (5' 6.9") - 210cm (6' 10.7") or taller | ||
Body Type: |
Any | ||
Looks: |
Any | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Not important at all | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home Language: |
Any | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any | ||
Relationship Status: |
Any | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
Any | ||
Daily Diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Any | ||
Drinking: |
Any | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Hair Style: |
Short; Curly |
Eyesight: |
I've got 20/20 vision |
Facial Hair: |
I have a goatee |
Body Hair: |
Shaved |
Disabilities: |
I have a chronic illness |
Sense of Humour: |
Childish |
Intelligence: |
Rocket Scientist |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Personality Traits: |
Cautious; Daring; Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Naive; Optimistic; Pessimistic; Quiet; Shy; Silly; Wild & Crazy |
Valued Qualities: |
Compassion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humility; Kindness; Patience; Self-control; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way) |
Favourite Clothing: |
Shorts & a T-shirt |
Favourite Colour: |
White |
Date Activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Alternative; Broadway / Theatrical; Classical; Country & Western; Dance / Disco; Gospel / Religious; Instrumental; Jazz; New Age; Pop / Top 40; R&B / Soul; Reggae; World |
Reading: |
I hate it |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Self-help; Travel |
TV Habits: |
I watch a few favourite shows each week |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Cartoons; Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Nature / Wildlife; News; Reality shows |
Movie Frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie Preferences: |
Comedy; Documentary |
Interests: |
Acting; Auto repair; Board games; Business news; Card games; Collecting stamps, coins, etc.; Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Knitting; Making Music; Meditation; Painting; Photography; Pottery; Reading; Sculpting; Sewing; Shopping; Singing; Woodworking; Writing books; Writing poetry; Yoga |
Sport Involvement: |
An active participant |
Sports: |
American Football; Athletics; Birdwatching; Body building; Bodyboarding; Bowling; Boxing; Bungee jumping; Camping; Canoeing; Cricket; Cycling; Dancesport; Extreme sports; Fencing; Fishing; Golf; Gymnastics; Hiking; Horse Riding; Martial arts; Motorsport; Mountain biking; Rugby; Scuba diving; Shooting; Skiing; Swimming; Volleyball |
Cooking: |
I really enjoy cooking |
Food: |
Fast food; French; Greek; Indian; Italian; Pub Grub; Sushi |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at Work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Pursuing a hobby |
Time Online: |
I'm online on weekdays only |
Family Size: |
I've got brothers |
Family Closeness: |
We're dysfunctional |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Dog(s); Horse(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Bird(s); Cat(s); Exotic pet(s); Reptile(s); Rodent(s) |
Work Aspirations: |
Find new, more meaningful work |
Dream Home: |
Beach house |
Religious Attendance: |
Only on religious holidays |
Retirement Plans: |
Exploring the 7 Wonders of the World |
Politics: |
Moderate |
Feelings about using QueerBuzz Men: |
Nervous |
Honesty: |
Extremely |
